Charlotte Observer - September 8, 2000

 

Social club helps newcomers find friends, connect

 

By Scott Dodd

Staff Writer

  Charlotte Outdoor Adventures has more than 3,000 dues-paying members. 

    Phan, 28 attributes the group's success in part to newcomers who feel the same way he did:  "I didn't know a soul. I came down here, and I was scared."

   He thought a social club would help him meet people outside work.  He couldn't find one that he liked, so he started his own.

   About 100 people attended a recent new member meet-and-greet at The Graduate on Morehead Street.  They all wore nametags showing where they were from.  New York and New Jersey were common, but you could also find Iowa and even the Philippines. 

   About 80 percent of the members have lived in Charlotte less than two years, The   reason   this   group   is

doing so well, because it's hard to meet people here.

   Some members joined even before moving to Charlotte.  They found the club on the Internet (www.choa.com) , joined, met others through e-mail and had friends before they got here.

   CHOA, as members refer to it, holds dozens of events a month, from hiking outings to cooking nights to overseas trips.      

   While the average age of members is 32, any adult can join for $19.95 a month.  The organization includes everyone from married couples to college

students to single parents.    

   "Divorce is just so isolating," said Rosemary Clement, a divorced mom who joined recently.   "It's so hard to make new friends." 

  C ompanies are beginning to sponsor the group's events because they recognize the importance of helping their employees connect to the city.

   "People will leave a city because they don't feel community," Phan said. "They don't have a connection, roots.  That's what they find here.

 

 
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